After so many years of saying, “lets start a blog” we are finally starting one. And in the usual Luelf way, we are starting out with a big announcement! Many of you have read our recent posts about Ryan’s diagnosis of Lymphoma Cancer posted today, 9/22/15. For the sake of the blog and keeping it all in here, I’m going to recap what has led us to this point and where we are today. We hope this blog serves as a story of inspiration, motivation and seeing what happens to a family faced with what the world seems to fear greatly: Cancer. Ryan and I (Caroline) will both blog from time to time hoping to give you an insight to both sides of the story and our story. Please know this. I do not fear Cancer. In fact, I truly believe that…

“Cancer is just an indicator that something is out of balance in our bodies, whether physical and/or mental. Cancer isn’t something to be feared, but only to be seen as an alarm our bodies send out.”

So, to bring you up to date, here’s our story in a nutshell:

Ryan has been preliminary diagnosed with what is very likely to be Stage 3 Lymphoma. About 4 months ago Ryan had 2 lymph nodes swell up, we thought it was just due to a virus. About 6 weeks ago additional lymph nodes popped up and thru our PCP Ryan underwent blood tests with CBC and Mono testing in addition to an ultrasound. All tests results were great, mono was negative, ultrasound showing swollen lymph nodes. He was referred to an ENT and an appointment was scheduled for 9/16/15 but later cancelled because of the two week training in OKC. While in OKC on 9/9, Ryan started developing intense headaches which we initially thought were attributed to training and intense studying to pass his mortgage broker license state test (which he passed!). Ryan spoke to a friend who is an eye doctor over the phone and he suggested Ryan buy some computer/reading glasses hoping that was what was attributing to the issue, but the doc let him know he didn’t like the fact that the intense headaches were waking him up at night. The weekend of 9/18-19 Ryan even won a 4.0 Men’s singles tennis tournament and felt great! But, by Wednesday evening 9/16 Ryan’s headaches were very intense with nothing bringing relief. Our friend was very concerned and asked Ryan to come see him at his clinic in OKC and he would check him. He checked his eyes looking for neurological issues and when he saw Ryan’s lymph nodes the Virchow’s node was blatantly obvious. Immediately the doctor spoke to Ryan about his concerns and need to have MRI, biopsy, blood work, etc. Ryan came home that afternoon. When he told me what our friend had told him, I immediately said call our PCP and get those MRIs ordered STAT!

Friday night 9/18 at 7pm Ryan had MRIs of the brain, neck and abdomen with and without contrast. By noon on Saturday our doctor texted us wanting to speak with both Ryan and I about the results. We knew something wasn’t right. Immediately our PCP let us know that he spoke extensively with the radiologist that morning and that the brain was clear with nothing abnormal on the scans. Unfortunately, the MRI showed “a bunch of lymph nodes lighting up all over the place in the neck and abdomen MRIs.” There was only 2 possibilities at this time: Lymphoma or a very rare virus. But, with additional indicators all signs pointed to Cancer.

Today, Tuesday 9/22 we met with the surgeon and after reviewing the films he confirmed the radiologists and PCP’s thoughts. He performed a check on Ryan and every lymph node that he could physically touch is swollen. The doctor was kind and let us ask questions. Ryan has many “B symptoms” and the headaches were determined to be “vascular” as the lymph nodes swelling is causing the tightness on his circular system thus producing headaches.

Thursday, 9/24, Ryan will undergo a biopsy at Oklahoma Surgical Hospital where a full lymph node will be removed so that the cancer can be confirmed, staged and diagnosed. We have set up this blog to chronicle this “adventure” in our life. This is NOT a death sentence. This is simply an indicator to make drastic changes to heal the body.

We are so thankful for the many texts, calls, messages, posts from everyone. While Ryan is loud and vocal, I am quiet. Even though I don’t say it much, thank you to everyone. Thank you for the prayers and positive thoughts. They have very much been felt and received. Please follow this post with Ryan’s thoughts on all of this here.
#LuelfStrong
Live Loved,
Live Free . . . because YOLO!
~Caroline Luelf

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10 Comments

  1. Ryan and Caroline, I’m standing in faith with the both of you believing in complete healing. I am so moved by your positive attitudes and your love for life. Thank you for allowing us to be a part of this very personal journey. You definitely inspire me and there’s no doubt you will definitely inspire many others. I will pray for you and all of your family while you are on this roller coaster of life. Hugs!!

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  2. Thinking of you today and keeping you close in prayer! My husband had his surgery yesterday and is in good spirits ! God will help us defeat this battle!

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    1. That’s great to hear Joyce! We hope all is going well. Blessings to you!

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  3. We love you guys and we are lifting you up! By His stripes!!!

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  4. I am your mothers friend from PR, I remember you as a little girl. I will be praying for your husband and your family. I know how difficult it could be I am a survivor! But he must tell himself eveyday that he could do it, positive thoughts and funny movies. All this strengthens the immune system. Lots of prayers and blessings for you!

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  5. Caroline and Ryan: you are both incredibly brave and I LOVE your outlook. I am totally convinced with a change in diet, mental outlook and removing negativity from around you – cancer can totally be beat! I love you both dearly and am rooting for you both and this “new” lifestyle. FYI, a bunch of my friends and colleagues as well as our household started doing the Crazy, Sexy Diet when a friend and my mom-in-law were diagnosed with the c word. Look into it and read Kris Carr’s story on beating a rare form of cancer. Los queremos mucho!

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  6. […] *Please remember that this is my own research and I don’t assume or pretend to know it all. I am simply attempting to simplify into laymen’s terms what seems to be a highly complex disease that affects everyone one way or another. There are always exceptions to the rule and planet earth sometimes makes NO SENSE AT ALL. I implore you to evaluate your current life choices so as to not assume you will be an exception to the rule. In America current statistics show 1 in 3 people will be diagnosed with cancer. 1 in 2 males will be diagnosed with cancer. Every Single Day 35,000 people are diagnosed with Cancer. I NEVER thought it would happen to my husband. Let’s live in courage and in peace. As I stated on my very first blog post: […]

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  7. Ginger J Lemons June 17, 2016 at 1:43 pm

    Caroline and Ryan, thank you for sharing your journey. In 2009 I was diagnosed with NHL stage 4. The Lord spoke to me and said, “you are not defined by a diagnosis, but by the person and work of Jesus Christ at the Cross. He took cancer to the cross, then to the grave, don’t dig it up and own it, treat it and walk free, it does not belong to you.”
    I was cancer free after 3 treatments of chemo.
    You are in my prayers and I rejoice with you in your future walking cancer free and living whole.

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  8. Would somebody please read my page on go fund me. Beverlys Battle To Bust Lymphoma I had asked Ryan, but he is in a boat of his own
    and seems he cant help me
    God Bless and help every one with cancer, and we will all
    make this a cancer free world !!!

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  9. […] details, facts & back story are documented well by my wife Caroline. Please review her first blog here for more understanding. I want to say a few things to all of you who are reading […]

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